Comments on: Caught in the “Act”?? http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/ Just when you thought it couldn't get any weirder... Sat, 07 Nov 2009 18:37:18 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Majestyk http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5995 Majestyk Tue, 01 May 2007 18:33:34 +0000 http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5995 As the occasional cross-dresser, I can totally sympathize with you. It's not something I do a lot but it is something I enjoy from time to time and I have always tried to respect the feelings and clothing of the women I date. Even when they accept that side of me, I know when it's appropriate to step into those things and I respect their personal items. And I would definately NEVER try to out-glamour the girl I was dating! The whole idea of him dolling himself up for Halloween and asking you to wear some ugly mask just shows that the whole thing was all about him. Make himself beautiful then drag you in tow to make him look even better. That's just rediculous and disrespectful. I've always owned my own things and while I have borrowed the occasional outfit, I made sure that it was ok and I never took intimate things like panties or lingerie. I know I wouldn't want to wear a pair of boxers that some other guy wore and I can totally see how him wearing the things you bought to turn him on would bother you. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Unfortunately as someone who's had the same kinds of urges as your ex, I've seen similar things happen quite frequently which is why I made the effort to make sure that I follow my own appropriate guidelines when I feel like a little dress up. It's much more exciting when you have someone to share it with. You can love your clothes, but no matter how hard you try, they'll never love you back so it's best to always be open and honest about these things. -Maj As the occasional cross-dresser, I can totally sympathize with you. It’s not something I do a lot but it is something I enjoy from time to time and I have always tried to respect the feelings and clothing of the women I date.
Even when they accept that side of me, I know when it’s appropriate to step into those things and I respect their personal items.
And I would definately NEVER try to out-glamour the girl I was dating! The whole idea of him dolling himself up for Halloween and asking you to wear some ugly mask just shows that the whole thing was all about him. Make himself beautiful then drag you in tow to make him look even better. That’s just rediculous and disrespectful.
I’ve always owned my own things and while I have borrowed the occasional outfit, I made sure that it was ok and I never took intimate things like panties or lingerie.
I know I wouldn’t want to wear a pair of boxers that some other guy wore and I can totally see how him wearing the things you bought to turn him on would bother you.
I’m sorry you had to go through that. Unfortunately as someone who’s had the same kinds of urges as your ex, I’ve seen similar things happen quite frequently which is why I made the effort to make sure that I follow my own appropriate guidelines when I feel like a little dress up. It’s much more exciting when you have someone to share it with.
You can love your clothes, but no matter how hard you try, they’ll never love you back so it’s best to always be open and honest about these things.

-Maj

]]> By: lingoslinger http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5109 lingoslinger Wed, 28 Mar 2007 21:16:36 +0000 http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5109 RT: I don't know... I really don't. Sometimes when I finish writing a story I am astonished, and horrified and bewildered by where it came from. I think I just have a twisted imagination. I rarely have a straight face... Poobah: Yeah, you know if it wasn't for the thong... I think it would've been fine... But the thong was what really did it. :) Thanks for reading & commenting. Always appreciated. Drive-By: Thanks for driving by. Please don't riccochet my windows with bullets though okay>? Steve: F'n democrats eh!! ;) RT: I don’t know… I really don’t. Sometimes when I finish writing a story I am astonished, and horrified and bewildered by where it came from. I think I just have a twisted imagination. I rarely have a straight face…

Poobah: Yeah, you know if it wasn’t for the thong… I think it would’ve been fine… But the thong was what really did it. :) Thanks for reading & commenting. Always appreciated.

Drive-By: Thanks for driving by. Please don’t riccochet my windows with bullets though okay>?

Steve: F’n democrats eh!! ;)

]]> By: steve http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5077 steve Wed, 28 Mar 2007 05:37:40 +0000 http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5077 Democrats... sheesh!!! Democrats… sheesh!!!

]]> By: Untwisted Vortex - Living in a Different Land » Blog Drive-Bys for 2007-03-27 http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5034 Untwisted Vortex - Living in a Different Land » Blog Drive-Bys for 2007-03-27 Mon, 26 Mar 2007 16:07:34 +0000 http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5034 [...] Slinger at Lingo Slinger weaved a story that only the adults in us can [...] [...] Slinger at Lingo Slinger weaved a story that only the adults in us can [...]

]]> By: Omnipotent Poobah http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5026 Omnipotent Poobah Mon, 26 Mar 2007 12:57:14 +0000 http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5026 Well I, for one, can see why wearing your thong might have been a bit over the line. Great story. Well I, for one, can see why wearing your thong might have been a bit over the line.

Great story.

]]> By: RT Cunningham http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5015 RT Cunningham Mon, 26 Mar 2007 07:47:50 +0000 http://lingoslinger.wordpress.com/2007/03/25/caught-in-the-act/#comment-5015 How do you write like this and keep a straight face at the same time? How do you write like this and keep a straight face at the same time?

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